And that could be a whole host of reasons why you're not saying what you really want. And it could even be that you haven't spent long enough thinking about what you want so often, and this is my experience, and I see it and others too, because we're not crystal clear about what we want or because we haven't said what we want. We can end up following someone else's path for us. Certainly happened to me in my career. I spent 10 years in a job I went into for 18 months. And that was because I didn’t give myself time and space to stop and think what is it that I really want? And so because I hadn't got that clarity, and because I hadn't said what I wanted to be honest with myself, I didn't dig deep enough to really understand it. Because of that, I ended up being put into positions or asked to take on positions that if I'd have been really honest with myself stopped and thought about it. It wasn't actually what I really wanted, but it was it was an easy option.